Friday Tidings

It was my first chance to stay a couple days with my grandson. Well, maybe not my first chance, but it’s the first chance I’ve had since he’s become a young man. He’s closer to adulthood than ever. His folks had a scheduled trip, and even though he’s long past needing “babysitting” I thought it would be a great time to follow up with his request to re-paint his bedroom. The last time I painted his room he was a young boy. I used the vibrant green and blue colors of the NFL Seahawks. With my novice painting talents, I taped the edges so the bright green didn’t seep into the brilliant blue. It was striking, even with some painter imperfections. Seahawk posters and championship regalia added character. He loved having his poster heroes as roommates.  That was years ago. He’s long past the childhood dreams of being a pro player. My homemade Seahawk curtains are coming down, along with the matching team-themed bedspread and pillows. Goodbye, player posters. That’s not who he is any m...

Some of the kids in my community are living in poverty. Through no fault of their own they come to school hungry. A few have slept in tents. A few have slept in vehicles and abandoned buildings. Some are living in travel trailers that have become permanent homes. This post isn’t about their parents and their circumstances, or the root causes of this kind of poverty—that’s for another time. This is about the kids. For these children, school is kind of a haven. Sure, school is about learning and sometimes that can be hard—but school is also laughter, togetherness, food, and a future that is being built beyond their home life. Years ago, Barb, an energetic and compassionate elementary teacher, envisioned a garden where “her” kids could learn to grow food. In our rural area gardens grow spectacularly well. So, she wrote a grant and literally got seed money to begin. Other teachers joined in the effort. It really became a school-wide thing. Some parents and community volunteers helped to...

It was my son’s junior year in high school and the prospect of looking towards his future must have brought him a blend of excitement and trepidation. His grades were top notch—and his small high school offered all the required courses and a limited choice of electives to fill his course load. Then came the visit with a college recruiter from a big Texas university. I was invited to join, so Tommy and I sat across from him in a Seattle hotel lobby. Tommy’s vital statistics were spread in front of this age-40-something, tie and sports jacketed, cowboy-booted professional.   I saw the man’s eyes narrow as he looked at my son’s current course load—besides the required courses, Tommy decided to take Auto Shop as an elective. The man shook his head and advised Tommy to double down during his senior year and not “waste” his time on courses that didn’t look good on his transcript. The recruiter didn’t see the merit of a trade course—and many colleges don’t. But he didn’t realize that A...

  I wasn’t aware that there was such a thing as Husband Appreciation Day. It’s not until April 17—so there’s time to plan something nice. Long before marriage books like Love and Respect or The 5 Love Languages were written, there was Grandma Gracie. By the time I was a teen, she was my personal romantic advisor. She questioned my choice in whom I dated. She observed some of my annoying habits, and gently reminded me that someday someone was going to share my home, and if I wanted it to be loving, then I needed to curb my sarcasm, and offer encouraging words instead. Gracie and her sweetheart, Don, eloped secretly so she could finish nursing school (nurses had to be single). Their Great Depression marriage involved sacrifice. But Gracie always said—just because you have less, don’t make your man feel less. Always remember that having one another matters most. Long before a national day of recognition for husbands was created, Gracie had set aside three absolutes—and they inv...

 Romans 8:22   “For we know that the whole creation groans and suffers together until now.”     I heard creation groaning last week. It was a mournful cry along the shoreline. Approaching closer, I saw a goose. It kept up its pitiful cry as I drew near. Then I saw the reason for his anguished call—another  goose was resting on the shore—his mate. Desperate, pleading cries continued as he paced back and forth. I’ve seen loved ones pacing like this in hospital waiting rooms. But the goose resting in the sand didn’t move. I walked by her quietly and respectfully. She looked comfortable, as if she only stopped to enjoy the sun in this quiet cove. Instead, she’d taken her last breath. I looked at her mate—waiting, calling, wondering, probably knowing, he was now alone. The sorrowful scene made me ache. His pleading call echoed over the shore. Creation groaned. Good Friday is the day when Jesus died on the cross. The Son of God groaned. His final words were, “I...