Crowd Around the Table Anyone?


Okay, I’ll begin with a quick poll. Would you prefer to enjoy your family and friend gatherings around a crowded table, or would you prefer to dine with a bit more elbow room?


There’s no wrong answer—just a personal preference, and that’s absolutely fine.


I grew up in a small home with a two-seat kitchen bar for breakfast, and a dining table where Mom, Dad, my sister, and I sat each evening.


But when the holidays came, both sets of grandparents, and my great-grandfather would crowd around our table. Dad would add a card table at the end, and Mom covered it with a festive tablecloth. This is what the holidays meant—elbow to elbow, full plates, and dessert waiting even if I didn’t eat all my veggies.


For me, the crowding is part of the joy. But, maybe I’m idealizing a childhood memory that literally doesn’t fit as well now.


So, friends—what do you think? Crowded or spacious? 


Whatever you choose, may you be surrounded by love. 

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